WORLD OF CROSSDRESSING: 2023

Friday, May 26, 2023

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Summer Style Mistakes to Avoid MTF

The warm weather is here and that means it’s time to show some skin!

Summer has its own unique style advantages and challenges. What’s the secret to looking stylish and elegant as the temperature rises?

In this post – specifically for crossdressers and transgender women – I outline 6 summer style mistakes to avoid. Read on to learn more!

Mistake #1 – Too-Short Shorts

Many crossdressers and transgender women have beautiful legs. You should definitely show them off if you want to!

The mistake is wearing shorts that are too short or too tight. As soon as you start walking, the shorts ride up and show more than you intended. Keep it classy and chose shorts of a decent length.

Mistake #2 – Heavy Makeup

Not only does heavy makeup look out of place in the summer, it can run and look cakey if you start to sweat.

Skip the vampy lipstick, heavy foundation, and thick eye makeup. Go for a lighter look instead. You’ll look much more fresh and feminine.

Mistake #3 – Self-Tanner Faux Pas

L'Oreal Sublime Bronze Self Tanning Lotion

We all know that baking in the sun can lead to wrinkles and skin cancer. Sunless tanner is a great way to get that sun-kissed glow. However, using the wrong tanner (or applying it incorrectly) is a definite DON’T.

There’s nothing worse than an orange or streaky looking tan, so check the tanner’s product reviews and learn how to apply it properly. This video has some great tips.

Mistake #4 – Flip Flops

Nothing says summer like flip flops, but the wrong sandals can ruin your entire outfit.

Flip flops are great for the beach or poolside, but they can look too casual or sloppy at other times. Instead, opt for sandals with more style and structure, like the ones below.

Mistake #5 – Visible Bra Straps

Strappy summer styles can make underwear a challenge. Visible bra straps can make you look less than polished. Here are some solutions:

Use a bra strap clip to help keep bra straps under control.
Wear a strapless bra or go braless with pasties/nipple covers to avoid bra straps altogether.

Mistake #6 – Sloppy Style

Summer styles are typically more casual and laid back. Just be careful not to cross the line from casual to sloppy.

It’s common to see women in ragged cut offs, dirty flip flops, and worn out tank tops. Why not stand out in classy shorts, pretty dresses, and casual but polished pieces instead?

Let’s see your summer style!

As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Can you think of any other summer style mistakes to add to this list?

Once we’ve gotten the “don’ts” out of the way, it’s time to enjoy your stunning summer style!

light colored shorts and blazer ensemble

I’d love to see your favorite summer outfits. Please share in the comments below!

Love,

JESSICA

Summer Essentials for MTF

Summertime is a great time to step out en femme, but let’s face – the warm weather definitely has its challenges.

For one thing, it’s hard to feel your best as you’re sweating off all of your makeup. And for another thing, it’s just too darn hot for shapewear, hosiery, and all the other accoutrements you might rely on to create your perfect feminine image.

The good news is that with a few small tweaks, you can look as flawless and feminine in the summer as you do the rest of the year.

Here are 10 warm weather essentials for your male to female transformation.

1. Sweat-Proof Primer

The best tip for summer makeup is to wear as little of it as possible. The next best tip is to use a primer to reduce shine and keep your makeup in place. Here are 4 primers worth trying:

2. Foam Breast Forms

If you wear breast forms, then you know there’s nothing worse than how hot and sweaty they can make you feel in the summertime. Instead of your usual silicon breast forms, opt for foam breast forms for a lighter and cooler feel.

3. Summer Fragrance

Fragrances can change on your body when the temperature rises – making heavy, musky fragrances overbearing in the summertime. Switch to a lighter, fresher scent for the summer like Escada Turquoise Summer or Victoria’s Secret Summer Vacation Fragrance Mist.

4. Blotting Papers

Blotting papers are a girl’s best friend in warm weather. Use them to absorb excess oil from your face instead of adding powder, which can lead to a cakey look. I recommend NYX Cosmetics Blotting Paper (at less than $4 a pop!).

5. Cotton Underwear

Natural fabrics that breathe are the key to staying sweat and odor free. This applies to everything you wear, including your undies. Make sure you have a collection of cute cotton panties for the summer. A cotton bra can also be a lifesaver.

6. SPF Moisturizer

The truth is, you should be using sunblock on your face all year long to protect you from wrinkles and premature aging. But it’s especially critical during the summer months. Olay Complete All Day Moisturizer is a great all-in-one moisturizer with SPF 15 coverage.

7. Flattering Sunglasses

Sunglasses are a summertime essential. The trick is to choose frames that flatter your face for the most feminine look. Since many crossdressers and transgender women have square or strong features, keep these tips in mid:

Look for sunglasses with a rounded shape to soften your features.
The larger your face, the larger the frames should be.
Choose frames that extend past the widest part of your face.
Avoid anything with a square shape, which draws unwanted attention to the angles of your face.

8. Anti-Frizz Spray

Heat and humidity leads to frizz, which makes summer hairstyling a real pain – whether you sport your own natural hair or wear a wig. To control frizz and maintain shine, use a smoothing spray such as Moroccanoil Frizz Control for natural hair or HD Smooth Detangler by Jon Renau for synthetic hair.

9. Exfoliating Body Scrub

Baring more skin in the summer means more shaving. And that – combined with sweat – can cause ingrown hairs and breakouts. Exfoliating is your best bet to keep pores and hair follicles clear. Use an exfoliating body wash a few times per week. TREE HUT Shea Sugar Scrub is a good one.

10. Maxidress

The #1 rule for dressing in the summertime is to think loose and cool instead of tight and hot. It’s not about baring the most skin, but wearing clothes that allow your skin to breath.

A maxi dress is a summer essential that every girl should own. Choose a style that skims your body to smooth over figure flaws and create a feminine-looking body shape.

Share your summer look!

While summer might bring its own set of beauty challenges, it’s also a liberating time to step out en femme. There’s nothing like enjoying a carefree, balmy evening and feeling the warm breeze around your bare legs.

I’d love to see YOUR summer look, so please upload a photo and share it in the comments below!

And if you have any other summer essentials to add to this list, be sure to share them with us.

Love,

Jessica