Why do men crossdress?

Girl friends and wives want to know.

Why do men crossdress?

Why does my husband crossdress?

How can I make him stop crossdressing?

The unfortunate truth, is that there is no simple, one line answer to these questions. If there were, you probably wouldn’t be reading this article, and the debates on this topic would be silent.
In my personal experience, the fascination with woman’s clothes started when I was very young. I must have been about four years old, and I remember going to great lengths to procure and then wear my mom’s nightie. My most vivid memory is as a teenager, nervously buying a pair of pantyhose from a local supermarket and then wearing them home under my pants.
I felt (and still feel) a need to wear woman’s clothes, and I can’t quite explain where it comes from. The media like to think of cross dressing as a sexual perversion, and so naturally they see the desire to cross dress and purely for sexual gratification. The problem with this theory is that when I (and many others) first felt the desire to cross dress I didn’t know what sex was.
Many cross dressers I’ve asked describe the need as ‘feeling more comfortable wearing woman’s clothes’. This is sometimes (but not always) coupled with the desire to be seen as a woman. To not just dress like a woman, but behave like one as well, to wear make-up and otherwise pass as a woman. There are others who cross dress for sexual excitement. The need to cross dress is indeed a spectrum.Why do men cross dress?
That still doesn’t answer the question why do men cross dress?
Marcy proposes a few interesting answers to this questions.
One argument is that transvestism of cross-dressing is a way of offering a challenge to society’s preconceptions about gender. Some men cross-dress because they are unhappy at being men. Others didn’t mind the male state, but also like to put on women’s clothes occasionally. Some men cross-dress simply to make a passing social or fashion statement, and some because they have emotional needs that can only be met by the comfort that wearing women’s clothes gives them.
Yet the true reason why men cross dress remains somewhat of a mystery. It is intensely personal, often confusing and sometimes guilt ridden. I’m hopeful that as society grows more tolerant of diverse gender expression we will see more cross dressers and transgendered stepping forward to share their stories. Without the need to justify their behavior, and no longer shamed by society perhaps we will be better able to answer this baffling question.
Comment and let me know, I would love to hear- why do you cross dress?


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  2. I'm a 40 year old male , and I remember as far as 4 or 5 years old , I have been secretly acrossdressing, and jerking off. I was punished a lot as a kid and always naked by myself in the room, so I played with my self a lot, and found my sister's panties and bra so my sissy alter ego named Lucy would keep me company, now that's some thing that I have dealt with my whole life. It's like 1 like is the man and the secret o e is the sissy alter ego. Idk but its taken a huge toll on me because I was caught once as a child and got my ass whooped, so I began to hate myself for it, and it's some thing I have to do, Lucy has to come out, she kept me company for all those years while I was punished , and now I just can't keep her punished . I feel like I'm going crazy at times , because the only way I'm able to cope with all this is through heavy drug use .I don't even know how I'm not completely crazy by now .

  3. For Me, It's Just The Natural Thing To Do...I Have 48C/48D Cup Breasts...So, I Need & Want To Wear My Bras !!!



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